The Black Marriage Counselor

THE BLACK MARRIAGE COUNSELOR

If you are experiencing the following in your marriage:

• Communication problems
• Sexual difficulties
• Anger
• Infidelity
• Conflicts/Disagreements
• Tension
• Falling Out of Love
• Disagreements on Raising Children

I can help you and your spouse overcome these barriers.

Many couples struggle because of a lack of skills, but not a lack of will. My goal is to empower you to listen to your partner for the keys to understanding him or her, discover “love languages”, make peace with the past, get over the pain and to develop the skills needed to create Win/Win outcomes that will help you and your partner live your happily ever after.

Whether you just heard, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you,” or trying to rebuild trust after an affair, need to replace distance with closeness, need to forgive (or be forgiven), or are trying to avoid separation or stop a divorce, I help black couples develop the skills to hear (and be heard), resolve conflicts in a “win/win’ vs a “win/lose” fashion, and become fluent in and speak each other’s “love language”, so that you can try and make peace with the past and get past the pain.

As your therapist, I will not be a referee and I will not judge right and wrong. I will analyze the mechanics of your relationship to determine what works well and what needs changing. With your consistent participation, openness to change and willingness to learn, you will develop tools to feed your relationship and manage the inevitable challenges that all couples experience.